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Surprisingly enough, this was the advice I was going to give. It's worked for me a couple of times too.Matthewfreire wrote:bro! just get to know her before you make any decisions. start some small talk somehow, and just start talkin to her asking whats up.....say lil things like..."oh yeaah schools over, im so glad, what are you doing for the summer?" stuff like that....then after a while be like " shit we gotta hang out sometime this summer" blah blah blah.......all in all....don't just go up to her and be like " i like you, do you like me?" ........give it sometime and just work your way in there lol.....not too much time, but just enough so you don't come off as a creeper........Basically just make a friendship with her, but distance it so that you guys are friends, but not some gay bffl type of friend shit.......LOTS OF FLIRTING bro, but don't go over the top lol....and don't try to make yourself seem like your hot shit....just be chill
hope that helped......it has worked for me many times
Start with the small talk, basically anything in general that doesn't involve a lot of self-disclosure. You can ask her how it's going, or ask her how much she's looking forward to the Italy trip.
Just don't talk to her so much that you two become such good friends that by the time you ask her out she pulls the, "I don't want to ruin the friendship" card.
Basically, it's a matter of getting her to know you exist without becoming her best friend. Throw out some hints that you might like her, like inviting her to future gigs and stuff. Try to make yourself not seem desperate. Just go with the flow.
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dont throw hints right after you said hi to her , i mean get to know hera little more first and then maybe you can invite her to something but not as a "real" date yetJeremy wrote:Surprisingly enough, this was the advice I was going to give. It's worked for me a couple of times too.Matthewfreire wrote:bro! just get to know her before you make any decisions. start some small talk somehow, and just start talkin to her asking whats up.....say lil things like..."oh yeaah schools over, im so glad, what are you doing for the summer?" stuff like that....then after a while be like " shit we gotta hang out sometime this summer" blah blah blah.......all in all....don't just go up to her and be like " i like you, do you like me?" ........give it sometime and just work your way in there lol.....not too much time, but just enough so you don't come off as a creeper........Basically just make a friendship with her, but distance it so that you guys are friends, but not some gay bffl type of friend shit.......LOTS OF FLIRTING bro, but don't go over the top lol....and don't try to make yourself seem like your hot shit....just be chill
hope that helped......it has worked for me many times
Start with the small talk, basically anything in general that doesn't involve a lot of self-disclosure. You can ask her how it's going, or ask her how much she's looking forward to the Italy trip.
Just don't talk to her so much that you two become such good friends that by the time you ask her out she pulls the, "I don't want to ruin the friendship" card.
Basically, it's a matter of getting her to know you exist without becoming her best friend. Throw out some hints that you might like her, like inviting her to future gigs and stuff. Try to make yourself not seem desperate. Just go with the flow.
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LOL.
Just fucking talk to her, you cunt. But don't just ask her out right away like you're saying you're going to, cause she'll think you're a pathetic sad cunt, start with some small talk, just say hi to her and shit like that, ask her what she's going to do this summer, get to know each other, and stuff like that, it's not that hard, really.
Just fucking talk to her, you cunt. But don't just ask her out right away like you're saying you're going to, cause she'll think you're a pathetic sad cunt, start with some small talk, just say hi to her and shit like that, ask her what she's going to do this summer, get to know each other, and stuff like that, it's not that hard, really.
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There's no doubt that I would just make small talk with her if I had the chance, but I don't. I hang out with friends on another end of the school than her. Not to mention that I don't have any classes with her. How can I possibly "just make small talk" If I'm never near her? That's what I need help with.
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STALK!2712 wrote:There's no doubt that I would just make small talk with her if I had the chance, but I don't. I hang out with friends on another end of the school than her. Not to mention that I don't have any classes with her. How can I possibly "just make small talk" If I'm never near her? That's what I need help with.
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well that complicates things2712 wrote:There's no doubt that I would just make small talk with her if I had the chance, but I don't. I hang out with friends on another end of the school than her. Not to mention that I don't have any classes with her. How can I possibly "just make small talk" If I'm never near her? That's what I need help with.
do you know any of her friends ?
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her one friend works at the same store as i do, but i fucking hate her. just the stupidest most annoying person there. and she's always in the break room when i go on break. and don't go posting some shit like "talk to her and maybe you'll hang out with her then get close to the one you like" cause i'd rather fuckin die than talk to that thing.Still Waiting wrote:well that complicates things2712 wrote:There's no doubt that I would just make small talk with her if I had the chance, but I don't. I hang out with friends on another end of the school than her. Not to mention that I don't have any classes with her. How can I possibly "just make small talk" If I'm never near her? That's what I need help with.
do you know any of her friends ?
in other news, i passed her about 4 times today and another 3 yesterday. i knew those were the most opportune times to do so, but i didn't know what to say. i suck at talking to girls.
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Hm, well talking to the beast is probably your best chance at getting to hang out with the girl you like. You'd have to weigh how badly you want to be with her against how badly you don't want to talk to the girl at work.2712 wrote:her one friend works at the same store as i do, but i fucking hate her. just the stupidest most annoying person there. and she's always in the break room when i go on break. and don't go posting some shit like "talk to her and maybe you'll hang out with her then get close to the one you like" cause i'd rather fuckin die than talk to that thing.Still Waiting wrote:well that complicates things2712 wrote:There's no doubt that I would just make small talk with her if I had the chance, but I don't. I hang out with friends on another end of the school than her. Not to mention that I don't have any classes with her. How can I possibly "just make small talk" If I'm never near her? That's what I need help with.
do you know any of her friends ?
in other news, i passed her about 4 times today and another 3 yesterday. i knew those were the most opportune times to do so, but i didn't know what to say. i suck at talking to girls.
If you're passing her in the hallway, there's probably nothing you can say to her to strike up a conversation that would come off as natural and not strange/creepy. I'm not sure how to get around that.
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Next time you see her, just push her into a locker and start making out. Maybe even undress her.
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